Collars

When Sir plays with subs he likes to collar them for the duration of the session. It’s a temporary symbol of submission. Its usually a large chain dog collar with a padlock. You may have seen them in photos on Sir’s Twitter.

I don’t think I’ll ever forget the moment I felt the cold chain around my neck and heard the click of the padlock when we first met. It was the moment the session became real, however wearing Sir’s collar outside of play is something more significant.

Sir gave me a necklace early in our relationship to serve as a day collar when we weren’t playing or together. It was an inconspicuous small silver chain, and it meant a lot to me then, and still does.

I’ve been much more in tune with the submissive side of myself of late, and am in a place in life where I’m caring much less about what other people think, am just happy being me. I decided that I wanted something that Sir could actually lock.

We got a thick gun metal cuban link chain which I now proudly wear. It hangs low enough I can look professional when I need to and can have it tucked into a shirt as to not scare the muggles. Feeling the weight of the lock engraved with his name around neck reminds me of my bond with him. It symbolizes our relationship, our dynamic - his ownership, my submission.

I smile and feel a sense of pride to submit to and serve such an amazing man every single time I see it in the mirror.